We all go through things in life that just happen for no reason, but what do we do when those things happen? Do we sulk and have pity parties, or do we get up and move forward? Do we dwell on what has happened, or do we put it in the back of our minds?
Well, this is what I normally do. I face what is happening, and do what needs to be done while it is fresh on my mind. I then pray about it and leave it alone. There is always something to be learned when we are faced with difficult situations that we do not have any control over.
Life lessons helps us to become stronger, smarter, and wiser people. We learn from our circumstances, and we learn from the mistakes we make. We pass what we learned on to the next generation so that they will not make those same mistakes. Until next time, what are some lessons you have learned from the situations you have been in, or when you experienced something on the spur of the moment?
Let me think back to when I was very young, my life was simple and free. I did not have a worry in the world, but one day I grew up into a beautiful young woman. I had my first child. I had four more children after he came. Life has taught me that things are not going to be perfect by any means. We just have to try to make the best of it. There will be good and bad days, there will be happy and sad days, there will be days when you just don’t know what to do about whatever is going on in their lives, but the fact remains, they will make their own decisions as to what they want to do in their lives. We as parents must support them no matter what, because at the end of the day; we are all that they have. So, life is lived one day at a time, moment by moment, breath by breath. Let’s make every moment count. Life is a lesson within itself. We have to keep living to keep learning.
Life lessons are what we learn from day to day. It is what we experience to have stories to share. When we think about the things we face from day to day, does it ever really settle in our mind? How do we process it all? Sometimes we try to forget the things that did not go our way, and sometimes we revisit them to find closure, but for what it is worth, we smile and move on. Thinking back to when I was not a professional writer, I never thought I would see my dream come true. Last year this time, I was just a regular red-blooded American trying to make it in the world, trying to make my mark to leave a lasting legacy for my family and friends to remember about me someday. I have come through some tough trials and tribulations that’s taught me a lot of life lessons. Life has taught me that nothing is impossible if you want it bad enough. I wanted my dreams to come true, and they have. Life has taught me that I cannot put limits on myself, and neither can you. Reach for your dreams and believe in them and yourself. Until next time, this is L. and her life lessons.
Don’t forget where you come from but remember where you are going. Remember that you were not always where you are now. Never look down on someone just because they do not have the finer things in life. Never judge anyone because that is not what we were created to do. Do not worry about things we cannot control or change on our own. Focus on one thing at a time. Don’t be hard on yourself. Take things slow and figure out what you want to do. Make a plan and stick to it. Things will fall in place before you know it, but you just cannot give up when things start to get tough. Take the bitter with the sweet and everything will be alright.
WHAT’S BEST?
Sometimes we experience things in our life, and we realize that we do not know it all. There are times when we think we know what’s best for ourselves, but we don’t. We make decisions based on how we feel instead of doing research one the feelings we are experiencing. How will we know what to look for when we are looking for a particular subject? Sometimes subjects have more than one page of information, but the question is this: How will we know what’s best to use?
How will we know in which direction to turn simply because we do not know which way to go? Just because we age, and we will forever age; doesn’t mean we know it all, because we don’t. We will not ever know what is best for ourselves because we did not create ourselves. The lesson is this, we have to go to the One who created us if we want to know what is best for us. He has all of the answers.
c. 2022. L.A.
Well, here it is another year and things are still the same. What can we do to make things better for ourselves? What do we do when we feel like we just can’t go on? What do we feel when we can’t figure something out, or understand something? How do we put a smile on our face when we’re so upset? Why do we deal with heartbreak, heartaches, and headaches? Sometimes we have questions such as these that we want answers to, but what do we do to get the answers to those questions? Who do we ask?
Well, there’s the internet, books, friends and family we can ask, and we resort back to thinking about the answers we may or may not want to hear. So, in the meantime, we cannot worry ourselves with questions and answers. We just need to live one day at a time and be happy. When we focus on just living our lives and doing us, then we don’t have time to let our minds wonder about questions and the “what if’s “. The lesson is this: Live in the moment and everything else will fall into place.
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